After almost a year I live in Bali, I went to Bedugul with friends that come from Jakarta .. who is going to get marry on 2010 Nov.. Congrats to them :)
some thing I couldn't missed when I saw them together. The future bride is definitely a very beautiful and nice lady, she is really taking care of my friend .. what you can say a typical east culture lady who's trying to take care most things and make her man as comfortable as can be. He is definitely lucky guy :)
In the other hand, I am definitely far from beyond anything like her.. which of course make me feel really bad, because I couldn't treat someone I love that way.. I feel I am not good enough yet..
Even though our east culture is progressing very fast into western culture type, but most girls are always change their attitude after they enter the marriage life. one of my best friend told me once, it is not just 1 person life but 2; where the marriage life can go on when those 2 peoples can work out together and understand each other. most important thing is respecting each other.
I wonder will I be that way someday? or actually the big question.. can I?
The end result, I figure out it is not about can I be as good as her but I am actually good enough for him.. the person who accept me the way I am.
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